Whatever i want to say here, is something that i have not rely told my parents because they somehow would not listen and would only scold me. But im not sure if my frenz have heard of this, but i guess i have told some to my brother.
Well, when i am growing up, i find that i am not really happy in this family because alot of things change over the times. Like the relationship between me n my siblings. My brother and sis fought over some computer matters which i thik my sis is too much, so until now, both of them do not really talk when they see each other. As for me, i was juz the neutral side becoz i have no power against them even though im the eldest. But recently, i juz quarreled with my sister and was not on good terms with her.
Juz few days ago, as my sis was now waiting for her 'O' lvl results so she stopped work and can sleep late. So in the morning, whenever i wake up, i confirm will make noise like packing my stuff, changing all those, coz i was going to be late. Then she will sms me and ask me to be quiet when i do my things coz she wan to sleep. But how can? How can a person do things so softly when he/she is in a rush. N some more i am a person who is quite rough in a sense, worse.
Ok nvm, but ytd same thing happen again, n she got worse, coz she sms me this: I don't want to be rude, but quit being inconsiderate or i'll not hestitate to throw the chair at your face tomorrow morning.' WTH! She is totally crawling all over me can! She want everybody to co-operate wif her even though we don't like it la! She thiks she is the queen of my hse sia! She not scared of anybody lo, say wan black face then black face, dun like then don't like.
Is like if she want to sleep, then can juz go my parents room to sleep rite when she koes i have school n have to prepare myself.
But whenever i quarrel wif her, forever canot win wan sia, is like she have ways to shoot me until speechless. Now even my parents also have to let her have her own way, n if i want to say anything to them, they will juz ask me to shut up n don't talk crap. So whatever i want to say, i have to hide inside my heart.
My sis is also another type of person who will bear grudges. Coz ytd the way she sms me, makes me very angry and don't intend to talk to her so at nite when my mum asked me to call my dad n she passed me her phone, i juz ignore her n took my own phone to call. Then after that i went to the kitchen n she was walking behind me, so she didn't say 'Excuse me' n juz push me away like nobody's business. So i say her n u koe wad she say, she say:'Oh u can talk ar, i thot u dun koe how to talk'. Then i shoot her:'U dun koe how to say excuse me ar, juz push ppl like tat, ur mouth is for wad sia, is for display wan ar!' Then i walk away, dun wan listen her talk crap. So at 1st have the mood for dinner, in the end tell my mum i don't wan to eat coz im full, which im not.
So b4 bedtime, she came in n ask me to take my things go out coz im still using my laptop ma, i was listening to music tat time, but can hear a little of wad she say. Then she say: 'I koe u purposely wan to stay here n don't go out, u dun wan to sleep but i wan to sleep' sth like tat. So i juz say:'U wan to sleep then sleep la, also nvr disturb u, tell me for wad. Also nvr offend u.' Then juz take my things n go out, dun care her. She even one word of 'sorry' also nvr say to me.
But i thik she rely super lack of manners la! When ppl wan to walk past, will say'Excuse me' rite, she nvr wan leh, she juz push u away, some more very hard sia. Then if u ask her questions nicely, she happy happy will answer u, if not bo chap u, or if not juz say I act act infront of her. WTH! She also another sensitive type of person la, is like when sometimes wad i say is not wad she thik, she will juz say her own thoughts and will assume tat that's wad i say. Oh another thing, when she wants to take something, she will not ask for it, but juz snatch it away.
Well, like i said, she has been crawling all over me, so whenever something happen, she will juz scold vulgar at me. Coz she koe i nice to bully ma.
Like this morning, my dun koe my dad or mum called her and was looking for the cheque so she come ask me if i had seen dad's cheque. She was searching for it and i said no coz i rely nvr see ma. She when she walked off, i tried looking for dad's cheque and found it! So i called dad n told him i found it, n he asked me to keep it properly for him. So after my sis heard, she quickly call mum i thik n told her i found the cheque and juz snatched it away. WTF! She dun koe wad is manners ar?!
Ytd evening, i was talking to my bro abt sis after sch n told him everything that happen in the morning. So he told me this: 'Why are u always treating her so nice when she always do things like this to u? She is a 2-faced person infront of parents n u.Whenever i am using laptop watching show, she always wants to make me share my earpiece with her or let her hear the voice. I also nvr ask u to do that coz i koe u will not want to do that, but becoz u r always so nice to her, tats y u always give in to her. Like nowadays, dad n mum is becoming biased towards her, letting her have her own way. So if u tell them anything, they will juz say give in to her and don't say anything nasty to her.' I find that wad he say was rite, i shld not treat her so nice anymore becoz she rely thiks i am nice to bully. She should reflect on her own behaviour and thik if wad she did is rite.
The sms that she sent to me ytd, i wanted to show my dad, but i do not have to guts coz like wad my bro said, no point doing that, nothing will change, they will still become biased against her.
My brother also said another thing to me: ' Based on her character, if i have a boyfriend in future, n the guy is quite good looking, most probably she will try means and ways to snatch the guy from me. Well i sort of don't believe coz i tell him u watch too much korean drama la, but i find that what he say may be 50-50. My sis say before that she only look at handsome guys and nice things, but not those ugly stuff, so it may be possible that she will do this. Hmm well sometimes things happen on drama may happen in reality.
Actually there are alot of things abt her which can't be said in a post, but these are the more outstanding matters which make me want to say out becoz i juz canot stand the way she behave! Sometimes i am wondering why do i have a sister like this which have a totally opposite character as me?! So i prefer the happy go lucky me! :)
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